Ever since I was a child, I’ve met people who seem incredulous at the idea that there might be a Deaf community.
The concept of people being linked by something they see as being inextricably negative is ridiculous to them. A typical response goes like this one from a commenter on an article I wrote for the BBC in August: “Saying ‘the deaf community’ is like saying ‘the left handed community’, it’s utter rubbish.”
My reply (in real life – I ignored the online commenter) is usually to start explaining the world I grew up in, with Deaf parents, watching amazingly visual stories being told in a blur of signing hands at Nottingham Deaf club, feeling utterly at home in this community.
I tell them about BSL’s own unique structure, grammar and syntax, and I also tell them about Deaf films, theatre and art, and mention See Hear and the BSL Zone.
Sometimes, people start to get it. Most times, I can see in their facial expression, and their eyes, that they don’t.
It’s not just random commenters, either. The words of an Observer TV review of BBC1’s The Silence, the last high profile drama I can remember which starred a Deaf actress, have been burned on my eyes for years. In it, Euan Ferguson wrote: “I’m not allowed by my hands to write the “deaf community” except in those inverted commas.”
The problem is that the Deaf community (note I’m using a big D – referring to Deaf people who use sign language and take pride in their identity) is largely invisible to the wider world, because of the language divide between spoken language and sign language.
This invisibility is reflected in the mainstream media. In TV dramas, how many recurring characters happen to use sign language or lipread, or seem in any way Deaf? Meanwhile, if a Deaf story pops up in the news, you’ll nearly always see non-Deaf people speaking on our behalf – rather than Deaf people representing themselves.
That’s why it’s so refreshing to see a hearing person who knows nothing about Deaf people at all actually meeting some Deaf people and understanding their world. Step forward, Grayson Perry.
In tonight’s episode of his identity series Who Are You?, he meets Paula Garfield and Tomato Lichy, a Deaf couple who are also campaigners, from North London.
Perry’s well on his way to being a national treasure, but he’s going to be very popular with Deaf people after tonight’s episode. The reason for this is, he actually gets us.
The couple, whose daughter became the first child in Britain to be legally registered with a sign name, tell him that Deaf culture is based on a shared language and lifestyle, and crucially, a shared experience of oppression by hearing people. As Paula tells him, “people think Deaf culture doesn’t exist.”
Perry soon homes in on the conflict between the medical profession’s focus on encouraging Deaf people to “function in a hearing world,” and Deaf culture, with its positive idea of Deaf identity, with Deaf people being connected by language and shared values.
He attends a party full of Deaf people signing, and says, quite perfectly, that this is “a rich rounded culture that is based on sign language, which is their own culture and is a beautiful thing.”
Perry soon becomes inspired to create an artwork featuring the Deaf people he has met while holding Lichy’s punk-style hearing aid covers, which, to Perry, say: “I am deaf and I am proud.”
The programme shows how strongly Deaf identity is felt, even to the exclusion of other cultural identities, when Garfield, who directs plays in sign language, explains to her Jewish mother that her Deaf identity outweighs her sense of Jewish identity. “Deaf culture is my religion,” she tells her. Earlier in the programme she has said “without sign language, I would be dead.”
So to all those doubters out there, people who think just because they can’t see something, just because they’ve never come into contact with it, that it doesn’t exist – Deaf culture, and the Deaf community are very much alive.
Tonight, on Channel 4, you’ve got a chance to access our world for just a few minutes. Why not tune in? As a famous movie quote says, this could be the beginning of a beautiful friendship.
Who Are You? aired on 5th November 2014 and can now be seen online here: http://www.channel4.com/programmes/grayson-perry-who-are-you/4od#3779549
Charlie Swinbourne is the editor of Limping Chicken, as well as being a journalist and an award-winning scriptwriter. He writes for the Guardian and BBC Online, and as a scriptwriter, pennedMy Song, Coming Out and Four Deaf Yorkshiremen.
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SignHealth
November 5, 2014
We can’t wait!
Tomato Lichy
November 5, 2014
Beautiful review Charlie! I’m excited but also very nervous – I have no idea what its going to be like 🙂 We worked with Grayson for over a year making it & had to keep quiet about it. All that work’s been cut down to about 15 minutes. I have no idea what’s been included…
Curlygirly
November 5, 2014
How can people be arrogant enough to say “there is no deaf community/culture”…by definition culture is about shared language, values and ideals… just because you don’t understand someone else’s culture doesn’t mean you can’t say it doesn’t exist! Look forward to the programme.
June Neale
November 5, 2014
The reason that Grayson Perry looks so creepy, is that the other man by contrast is so good looking. Perry’s work is sublime though.
Editor
November 5, 2014
I think Tomato will be pleased when he reads this comment!
Meren Roberts
November 6, 2014
I hope someone uploads this show to YouTube. I want to watch it but I do not live in England.
Glen Barham
November 6, 2014
Excellent review and excellent programme. Grayson Perry really does get it and the editing down to a short part of the programme has achieved a good representation. Well done to Paula, Tomato and all and to Grayson Perry. If you missed it, it’s worth a watch on 4OD.
Cathy
November 6, 2014
Has this story been revived from the archive or is it current? I cannot find this programme in TV listings, although I will check out the catch up services.
Someone said they had worked with Grayson over a year, yet the programme was cut to 15 mins!! Just shows how important the Deaf community is eh?
I recall a programme starring a young deaf girl who had her hearing aids stolen, is this the same programme or not?
It is understandable that hearies do not realise there is a deaf community when the two communities cannot possibly mix due to the language divide. But as technology and Science improve on aiding deaf people to hear this divide is likely to start to converge with the hearing world until the divide is no more…………perhaps a sad day for sign language itself and thus the Deaf community!
Editor
November 6, 2014
It was on last night and can now be seen on 4od here: http://www.channel4.com/programmes/grayson-perry-who-are-you/4od#3779549
Cathy Low
November 7, 2014
I have just stated learning BSL and LOVE it! I wish children in schools al over the world could be taught signing – it”s such a brilliant communication method and it seems obvious to me that it’s the best way to have a GLOBAL language! Love sign language – wish I was fluent 🙂
xxx
Alex Vann
January 20, 2015
Late replying to this because I’ve just come across it!
I saw the programme when it was aired and I was very impressed with Grayson Perry. I’ve been aware of his work for years but not really to a deep level. I think his ‘Deaf’ project was one of his most successful in the series.
Like others have said, I felt he really ‘got’ the Deaf community and culture, and what the language means to it. Moreover, I was intrigued by Paula’s relationship with her Jewish religion and therefore her mother. It was a very complex issue and I thought it was very sensitively handled by Channel 4.
But I don’t agree with one comment here that the ‘two communities [Deaf / hearing] cannot possibly mix’. There are ways, and one very simple way is for hearing people to learn to sign. It takes time, hard work and dedication but of course it can be done and has been done by thousands of hearing people, including me. It’s like a wonderful doorway into learning more about another culture/community – and that can only be a good thing.
Imagine what our world could be like if we could do that for ALL cultures.