This Tuesday I had my first real experience of adult audiology when I visited Selly Oak HARC (Hearing Assessment and Rehabilitation Centre) in Birmingham.
I have to say that I was incredibly nervous in the days before, as I knew I’d be swapping my broken old model hearing aids for something new and shiny – but I hadn’t been told exactly what.
I knew that the obvious choice was a Naida, so the night before I went Googling and decided that I very definitely wanted one like this…
Because stripes are definitely in this year… and lets face it – you could wear it with ANYTHING!
So Mum and I rocked up at audiology – which by the way is in a sort of grand porti-cabin thing which looks so much bigger on the inside than the outside!
I almost died of nervousness in the waiting room, with millions of thoughts running through my head… I knew that kids audiology is a lot different to adult audiology – you have a lot more responsibility to look after yourself, and the appointments are with different people. Although responsibility is a good thing! And I’m always berating people who don’t treat me like an adult…
Of course, everything was fine – the lady was lovely and made me feel totally relaxed! Although there were some teething problems… The lack of colourful hearing aids for a start.
I’m still totally amazed that HARC will not give you coloured hearing aids! Not even if you start with beige ones to “try them out” and then swap them when you’re certain that they’re good for you!
Apparently, in order to have colourful hearing aids you have to have a learning difficulty or a mental health condition… and my pleas that having horrible, old person beige hearing aids would get me bullied for sure and therefore ruin my mental health were totally ignored. A sad moment in my life…
I still think it was a valid point to raise – I’ve had comments from people before about having beige hearing aids (my stand in ones were beige) and it totally ruins your confidence to do anything – like wearing your hair up…
Another point that was made by a friend afterwards is as a sort of role-model to deaf kids through NDCS, WDCS, Deaf Direct, general life… surely it would be better for those kids to see that being a deaf adult with hearing aids means you can still be cool… After all having coloured aids does make them a lot more bearable, and you’re always the envy of your friends!
The hearing aids Ive actually ended up with look like this…
At least I still have colourful molds, right?
And thanks to the NDCS Facebook mums and their AMAZING ideas, I’ve actually pimped them a little bit so they look a hell of a lot cooler than anything audiology could have given me!
I decorated them with nail stickers from Sainsburys – enough to do both hearing aids at least twice over!
I’ve managed to make something that looks funky and cool, a little grown up but still childish enough that I don’t feel too much like an adult! They’ve even been complimented by a random person on the train…
The best bit though is I went out with my hair up twice this week and didn’t even think twice about it – for me having something that looks colourful and creative is so important because it gives me confidence and totally matches my personality.
So all in all, adult audiology is really not as bad as it’s cracked up to be in my head… The people are friendly and they still don’t bite, they listen to your concerns and I’m perfectly happy to be going back in 6 weeks time for a review appointment…
After that the next step is just going – ALONE!
I’ll cross that bridge when it comes to it!
Ni is a deaf teen in mainstream school. This year she was on the NDCS Youth Advisory Board and as well as this she runs a Youth Group for Worcestershire deaf teens called “Deafinity.” She started writing a blog (www.nigallant.blogspot.com) a couple of months ago about life from a deaf teenagers perspective and says that “somehow what I said resonates with other young people – so I carried on!” deaf news uk
Tobie Fysh (@tobiefysh)
April 13, 2012
Next time point out that Ben in Eastenders has blue HA’s and that you like to follow in his footsteps….. Hopefully they know the current storyline involving him and will hopefully not want to fall victim to you like Heather 😉
(I can’t believe I just admitted to watching Eastenders!)
stageandsign
April 13, 2012
Thank you for a great blog. It’s really interesting that you say that the funky hearing aids are only for people with learning disabilities or mental health conditions. Is this just for adults? I find their reasoning (what is their reasoning??) very strange, surely it singles people out. Fair play to you for embracing funkiness!
barakta
April 13, 2012
The coloured hearing aids must vary by audiology then cos one of my adult friends in London has purple hearing aids and last time had silver. She’s got coloured earmoulds too and puts coloured rings around the tubing. I wear unusual hearing aids so I don’t really get cool colours, but I have had black since 1992 so I’m not complaining too much!
HARC who I recently moved to are very good as an audiology dept and they seem to have deaf awareness and a lot of clue (first time an audiologist has mentioned time-out without hearing aids without shouting at me). However I must say I am disappointed that they don’t allow coloured hearing aids as I presume they’re not much more expensive if at all and I know hearing aids are now purchased for the individual rather than coming from a pool of “loan aids” like they used to.
Well done for creative decorating. I like them!
Ni Gallant (@Ni_Gallant)
April 13, 2012
thanks for the comments guys 🙂 the reasoning harc gave was that people decided they didnt like the aids and gave them back… and then they couldnt give them to someone else cos they were stripey or purple or whatever… it does seem to just be adult services and it is a postcode lottery cos my other deaf friends have colourful ones 🙁 ahh well – i think they look more individual now! but their argument about giving them back is odd – surely you could have beige ones to start and then at the 6 weeks appointment if you were sure you liked them they could order coloured ones?! strange…
barakta
April 17, 2012
Or a no returns policy “you’re stuck with them” and people could re-boringify them like you’ve done with funkifying yours if they really care. I know when I’ve had to choose models from HARC or anywhere else I’ve had to make my decision and stick to it as long as they basically work. I’ve only ever returned two models flat out within 24 hours on the grounds that they weren’t actually powerful enough for me and when my ex audiology dept grumbled I demanded comparative audiometry which proved their deficiencies immediately!
To help me make my decision I’ve been given loaner aids to play with combinations and so on because I’m a cranky bugger who is very picky about my hearing aids and it takes a decent audiologist to handle that.
On the other hand, I know people can be really annoying and I wonder if it’s a relatively small subset of deaf adults who aren’t on the elderly side and or having difficulties coming to terms with “hearing impairment” whereas many of us born deaf or deaf-from-a-young-age lot have a very different attitude. Audiology even the good ones are geared up for the oldfolk and people like us are really rare. That’s why I’ve never met an audiology receptonist who signed at all and only one signing audiologist!
discpad
April 18, 2012
Ni, there’s something quite important you said here, that bears followup:
Bullying of hearing impaired kids and teens is a Really Big Problem on both sides of the Atlantic, and I’m quite glad you wrote this article, and also “pimped out” your hearing aids — You’re showing confidence in yourself, that your “magic ears” are a part of you and not just some butt-ugly prosthetic device. In fact, I counsel this to my own patients — Most of them are senior citizens, in fact — that they should treat their hearing aids like jewelry or a fashion accessory, and not try to hide them, as the more you try to hide them, the more conspicuous they become.
To that end, my friend Hayleigh has a line of hearing aid jewelry you should check out at Hayleigh’s Cherished Charms… And Yes, she ships worldwide.
Also, check out Tube Riders, which are fun.
Dan Schwartz,
Editor, The Hearing Blog
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Matthew Jones
April 18, 2012
No colored h.a.’s? I know perfectly functioning (although slightly eccentric) individuals who have multicolored molds and OTE’s… Mine right now are clear.
Jennifer gibson
April 18, 2012
I agree, I don’t want to wear my grandma ‘s hearing aids either – I prefer something more suitable for me, my personality. I don’t want to hide my heating loss, I want to shine!
BTW, no one, especially medical “professionals” have the right to forbid us from wearing whatever colour hearing aids we want – we wear them every single day & it’s a part of our life therefore we have the right to choose any colour we want.
The last time an audiologist tried to tell me their opinion regarding the colours of hearing aids & earmolds & refused to listen to my request, I walked out & never returned. They had no right to tell me how to live my life.
Good for you for speaking up & getting vibrant earmolds, that’s a step in the right direction! Just be proud of who you are & others will follow.
Jennifer gibson
April 18, 2012
Crap, just noticed that auto correct changed the word hearing loss to heating loss – sorry about that.
Audicus (@audicushearing)
April 27, 2012
Great post!
Here are some more cool (and sometimes futuristic) hearing aid designs:
http://www.audicus.com/blog/2012/cool-hearing-aid-design/
searchengineoptimizationmelbourne
May 4, 2012
Better info on your blog than what I have seen so far elsewhere. Thanks for sharing and… Keep up the good work. I know from experience it’s not always easy! :-).