The first question many hearing people ask sign language users is often how to sign a swear word.
I still remember my Mum collaring me after a day at primary school because, outside the school gates, one of my friends had fingerspelled S-H-O-T to her, before running away, laughing. My mother’s a sharp woman, and she’d quickly guessed that he’d got the ‘O’ and ‘I’ letters mixed up. She wasn’t best pleased about the results of my amateur attempts at teaching my classmates a little deaf awareness.
In more recent times, many Deafies have become annoyed at the sheer number of hearing people who love showing us the one sign they know. “Bullsh*t.” Clearly, being able to swear without having to actually verbalise a word really gets hearing people excited.
I’m not saying there’s no fun to be had in showing hearing people how to swear in another language – and they get as excited about swearing in Italian or French, I’ve found – but there’s good reason to be wary about showing non-signers how to be rude in visual form.
Firstly, teaching Hearies how to swear as a gimmick doesn’t really get Deaf people anywhere. What most Deafies would like is to be able to have a meaningful conversation in sign language with a Hearie. If swear words are the only sign language they ever learn, it isn’t good for anything. Except an argument, maybe.
Secondly, and more importantly, teaching swear words and watching them spread, as a matter of fun, throughout a world that can often be ignorant of deafness, can lead to a lack of respect for our language. Especially if these signs are placed in the wrong hands (apologies for the pun).
All of which might go some way towards explaining the online outrage in the Deaf community that was recently reported in this story on The Horn. Except the signs that are being taught go way beyond the typical swear word.
5000 people (including me, earlier today) have now signed a petition protesting against a new book called ‘Super Smutty Sign Language’ that’s due to be published in Autumn 2013 by an ASL amateur called Kristin Henson. The book comes on the back of her hit YouTube channel, where she’s clocked up over 1.5 million views teaching people phrases like “How much for a blow job?” and “Eat sh*t and die.” Those are the more family-friendly examples.
After news that the book would be published, the online Deaf world was quick to respond.
In this blog post, Tavian Robinson (who went on to start the petition) accused Henson’s phrases of being “misogynist, sexist, racist” and of “exploiting ASL for profit.” As The Horn reported, Oscar-winning Deaf actress Marlee Matlin went on to Tweet to Henson: “Your book on dirty signs and YouTube videos are offensive.”
The Horn’s article quotes Henson’s response: “I don’t want to oppress, marginalize or belittle an entire culture. I do want to help spark an interest in ASL and Deaf culture. I want to learn as much as possible, and help bridge the gap between our worlds.”
“Every time I’ve learned anything in a new language, I’ve wanted to share it with people. I want to help other people get excited and passionate about signing, because it’s been so exciting for me to learn it,” Henson said.
“Quite a bit of the humor is in the fact that they just don’t translate. ASL is a conceptual language, and the sentence structure is completely different,” Henson said. “When hearing people see that there are ways to say vulgar things in ASL, I think it helps to make [deaf people] relatable to hearing people, because there’s a common ground.”
However much Henson insists that her main interest is in sparking an interest in sign language and Deaf culture, this seems far less genuine when you take a look at her personal website. Among the “Dirty Signs” merchandise on offer there’s a branded bandana, a coffee mug, and a doogie. All of which makes her seem, in my opinion, more like an opportunist who spotted a business opportunity.
Ultimately, all of us who use sign language would love it if more hearing people could sign too. The idea that their first contact with our beautiful language might be these kinds of phrases, from someone who isn’t an expert in the language, by any stretch, is very hard to take.
What Henson’s doing may make her money, but it isn’t funny. It’s not clever. And it certainly won’t win her any fans in the Deaf world.
There must be some alternative.
‘Mildly Pleasant Signs with Clive Mason,’ anyone?
Charlie Swinbourne is the editor of Limping Chicken, as well as being a journalist and award-winning scriptwriter. He writes for the Guardian and BBC Online, and as a scriptwriter, penned My Song, Coming Out and Four Deaf Yorkshiremen.
The Limping Chicken is supported by Deaf media company Remark!, training and consultancy Deafworks, provider of sign language services Deaf Umbrella, the National Deaf Children’s Society’s Look, Smile Chat campaign, and the National Theatre’s captioned plays.
madcapy
July 3, 2012
I have just signed and shared. I am disgusted that if the book isn’t bad enough it is a hearie that is doing it. It is often hard enough for hearies to be accepted due to the fact that many don’t bother being part of the Deaf Community after doing exams. This will probably make it even worse. It comes across as portraying signing and the Deaf Community as something to be ridiculed by those that don’t know any better. There are very few petitions that I sign as I am not sure if they really do any good: this one though I feel very strongly about and that we have to try.
E
July 3, 2012
As a hearing person who works to ensure equality for all, I’m appalled and disgusted. this is not only disrespectful, but also sheds a bad light on those of us who find ASL and Deaf beautiful and want to learn (the correct way!) about it. What this woman is doing raises suspicions of us and our motives beyond wanting to learn about a new culture. Finally, I think it adds to the us vs. them, hearing vs. deaf thinking that is unproductive and divides rather than unites.
James Allen
October 3, 2013
I think it is ridiculous to think that learning how to sign a dirty word or phrase somehow casts a bad light on ASL or the deaf community. Hearing people in China often learn curse words in English before moving on to learn other words in English. Does this negatively effect the English language or hearing people who speak it? Not at all!!! I think it’s time for you to consider that the world does not revolve around you or any language you may communicate with. If it makes you feel better, you can buy dirty sign language t shirts designed by a person that is actually deaf @ http://www.FilthySigns.com …
Larry
July 3, 2012
My .02…each time someone writes about her, her numbers soar! We are giving her free publicity. So the more we write, the more publicity she gets, which is exactly what drives sales.
I parallel it to when hearing people tell me I can’t do something, I am driven even more to do it. We’re doing the same thing to this girl.
This “campaign” to stop publication of her book has the same effect that Rush Limbaugh has on the masses. Publishers don’t care about integrity or “cultural” issues. SALES are the motivating factor.
maggisummerhill
July 3, 2012
Nice publicity stunt/press release. That’s what it is isn’t it? I mean it contains contains working links to Kirsten’s website, the u-tube channel, the twitter account, the publishers and a release date. Just curious; did she pay for this?
Editor
July 3, 2012
Links are included as evidence so people can see what’s happening for themselves, not as a promotional tool of some kind.
The most important link is the one to the petition against the book – I’ve signed it and I hope others do too.
maggisummerhill
July 4, 2012
Thanks for putting me straight. 🙂
Georgie Robinson
July 3, 2012
I’m shocked. I can’t believe I’ve gone through life thinking I have plenty of common ground with hearing people, not realising the only commonality was vulgar language. How silly of me. I only hope that the 1.5 million plus views clocked up on YouTube are seen by viewers in the same way as that cat that plays the piano and not as an educational tool. I spend a lot of my working life trying to get across to young people that bad language is unnecessary and offensive, whatever language they choose to communicate in. I might as well give up now.
mmostynthomas
July 3, 2012
Larry is right. The basic idea of a book about signing bad language has been floating around for some time anyway so if it wasn’t for Kirstin Henson it would have been somebody else.
Not that I condone the book’s contents, of course – they are truly degrading. But let’s play devil’s advocate. Had Kirstin’s publisher approached any deaf sign language users before she signed up with them? And if they had, would the deaf people have tried to make it work to their and their community’s advantage? Or would they have rejected it on the grounds that it was disrespectful to their language?
I won’t lie – I was myself approached by a British publisher to work on a book called How to Swear in Sign Language a few years back. It never got anywhere – and I am glad it didn’t, because the publisher was utterly clueless and kept trying to get me to invent signs for words or phrases that simply didn’t exist. Phew. It did feel as though I’d signed a pact with Lucifer himself.
sandrap
July 3, 2012
Report her page on facebook, twitter, youtube. Exercise our rights to shut down such harmful propaganda.
Linda Richards
July 4, 2012
Thank you for drawing our attention to this Charlie.
If every single reader of The Limping Chicken [TLC] signed the petition, this could represent the biggest single action by the Deaf Community ever.
There could be a ripple effect too. All the subscribers and users of those organisations which sponsor TLC could sign up too. Come on NDCS et al, this sort of smut and degrading of our language can’t be what you want your students, children and their friends to be proud of…. Use your contacts too.
And Charlie, please keep re-posting this article in various forms until we reach the 100,000 signatories that represent readers of TLC.
We might, just might, change the publisher’s minds.
Smarty
July 4, 2012
There is a danger this campaign will have the effect of drawing a lot more attention to the book than it would have otherwise had. If the campaign reaches the mainstream media then sales of the book could shoot upwards! Remember bad publicity is often good publicity!
Editor
July 4, 2012
It’s a point several people have made – my question is, what’s the alternative? Saying nothing? Allowing the book to be published? Some may not agree but I for one think it’s worth speaking out.
maggisummerhill
July 5, 2012
I agree with Smarty and Charlie. Unfortunately Charlie, the way the article is written it is a perfect promotional piece, from a marketing/PR viewpoint – I can give you the reasons why, but won’t go into it in detail here. I think I would delete the piece and focus on what we really want i.e. respect for ASL and deaf people. There has always been a struggle to keep swearing out of any language (apart from the blessing of basil when you sow the seed apparently). As I see it the strongest argument to stop this kind of abuse is to have it recognized as deliberately misrepresenting ASL and having a damaging effect the relationship between hearing and the deaf. The key though is to campaign for respect in general and not to focus on one person.
Editor
July 5, 2012
Sorry, but I don’t agree with you Maggie! And this is why.
Henson already has a YouTube channel that’s clicked up over 1.5 million views. She has a book deal. She has a website. She’s selling ‘Dirty Signs’ merchandise on it.
Basically, she’s already on the way to making a success of her business, if not of her relationship with the Deaf community. Without people pointing out what she’s done and how it makes them feel, nothing is going to change.
I guess my question is, how would you suggest Deaf people lodge their objections to what she’s doing? You can’t do that without actually showing people what’s out there. And I think a general campaign for respect wouldn’t really have any impact on this situation at all.
That’s why the original blog, and the petition are so important. Hopefully this one makes more people aware too.
That’s my view – though I respect your right to disagree.
maggisummerhill
July 5, 2012
I guess the main thing I am trying to say is that the campaign may be serving the issue better if it was focusing on more than one person.
Editor
July 5, 2012
Just to add, it’s not the fact that swear words exist in sign language that’s the issue here. Many of my Deaf friends use the odd profanity with a visual dexterity that would have put Bruce Lee to shame. That’s part of the language and culture. This is a very different issue.
Oh Dear
July 5, 2012
Honestly what’s all the fuss about ?
Hearing person writes a book on ‘dirty’ sign language, hopes to make a living, then deaf people get all upset…..why?…..because the hearing person got there first?…..because deaf people thinks sign language belongs to them only?….deaf people thinks they have total ownership of how sign language are presented?.
In a free society, anyone should be free to earn a living. No one should be offended as there IS no offence.
Don’t like the book then DON’T BUY IT….SIMPLES
Lana
July 6, 2012
We are lucky to have this Limping Chicken website to give us lots of important information
Thank – kiss this cute limping chicken for me, charlie
deaflinguist
July 6, 2012
Many years ago at a university near a school for Deaf children, at which students did both volunteering and teaching practice, I helped out by running an informal short course introducing BSL for my fellow students.
One student straight away asked to learn swear words, with a challenging look in her eye. I asked her to consider whether that was an appropriate aim when working in a school.
What surprised me was that she was a mature student, rather than an undergrad or postgrad as many of the others were, and should have known better.
louhicky
July 6, 2012
Reblogged this on Louise Hickman.
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May 24, 2013
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Duane Cope II
December 12, 2013
As a deaf guy, I appreciate the humor in this. I fully support this. These guys root for censorship, I root for opposite. 🙂
renelindsey
January 2, 2014
Can’t we all just enjoy life and each other. Not everything someone says or does is an insult to another culture, gender,ethnicity, or religion. All people are entitled to their opinions and are able to make money how ever they choose. I wait for the day to come when we can all sit down together and be ourselves, not a color, not a religion, not a sexual preference, not a specific culture, just acknowledge each other as a person with something interesting to offer. You don’t have to like everything someone else’s does or believes in, however they have a right to feel the way they do. As long as it doesn’t cause death, get over it. Enjoy your life be who you are and learn not to take life to seriously. Except others, they’re not all out to cause harm.