Andrew Solomon wrote a book called “Far From the Tree” that was all the rage a couple of years ago. In it, he explores identity through analyzing multiple disabilities, along with homosexuality, children of rape, prodigies and transgendered people.
It has taken me literally all this time to work my way through the deaf chapter. Whenever I’ve started to read that chapter, it’s as if the waterworks are turned on behind my eyes and Just. Don’t. Stop.
Without getting overly dramatic about it, I think my emotions regarding the chapter are more to do with triggers in the chapter on my own experiences growing up deaf in oral communities, schools and family, and less to do with Solomon’s writing.
But there was one thing that stood out for me enough to want to write this post.
The future of sign language
Solomon concluded his chapter by saying that since parents are choosing cochlear implants more and more, the number of the deaf is decreasing, and it seems likely that ASL is a dying language.
But he doesn’t seem to understand – as many parents of deaf children apparently also don’t understand – that being deaf isn’t something that you turn on or off with your technology.
My hearing aids help me to hear, just as cochlear implants help people who have them. But at the end of the day, we take these devices off and we are deaf.
So if parents or people choose to utilize technology like hearing aids or implants, I would love for them to think about what happens when the devices come off?
What happens when you take the hearing aids or implants off?
You don’t wear the external device that is attached to the cochlear implant 24/7, nor does one wear hearing aids 24/7. What happens then? If you don’t teach your kid sign language and give them a way to become fluent in it, you are making your child completely reliant on machines to hear and communicate, and without language when not wearing them.
Even if I could, I don’t want to wear my hearing aids all the time. My dear friend Katherine originally had two cochlear implants. One implant had to be removed due to infections and she is having issues with her remaining CI. She was raised completely oral – so if she had not made the independent decision to learn ASL as an adult, where would she be now?
I am not sure I can emphasize how horrible it is to be without a means to communicate.
Want to tell your lover you want some coffee? No hearing aids or implant in; oh, write it on paper or struggle to lipread or have her shout at you. The effort of it is more than exhausting; it is spiritually numbing and disempowering.
I think it is absolutely critical that parents be educated in the importance of ASL and to make sure their deaf kids can become fluent in it so that they won’t be lost without their devices. I think parents need to realize that their child can be fluent in ASL and still wear their device – and that helping their child to learn and utilize sign language will actually empower their child, give them greater options and opportunities, and leave them feeling safer for when they are not wearing their device.
I don’t agree with Solomon’s take on the ‘one or the other’ – I don’t think that ASL is or needs to be a dying language because of the emerging popularity of cochlear implants or more sophisticated technology in hearing aids.
Meriah Nichols writes about travel, disability and parenting. Deaf, she is also the mother of Moxie, who has Down syndrome. Meriah’s writing has appeared in Huffington Post, News.com The Village Voice and Scary Mommy, among others. She currently farms half the year on the Lost Coast of California and travels the Pan American Highway during the other half, “roadschooling” the kids.
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handeyes
April 10, 2015
When Solomon came to NTID during the q and a I shared that I contest his conclusion that Deaf ASL folks will be a thing of the past – he said that since the publishing of the book and meeting more Deaf folks and seeing that things are not mutually exclusive – he is more hopeful for the future of Deaf cultures. Thank u for writing this entry and it brings us to the eternal question – why are Deaf children systematically denied the right to ASL q
Cathy
April 12, 2015
What if the deaf children themselves are not interested in sign language? Are you going to force it on them? I know a good handful of deaf people who either hate sign language or dont like it, although that is here, not in America.
Parents will ask their children if they are interested, if not that will be that, regardless of how often a CI or hearing aid is removed.
I have hearing aids and I usually wear them out and about, but not always at home. Silence is lovely!!! I am sure deaf children will not be taking their CI or aid out very often and therefore are hardly likely to bother with sign language. Many will probably lipread well too. So they are hardly missing out.
The only children likely to have communication problems are those without CI’s or hearing aids for whatever reason, but am sure these numbers will be pretty low.
I have noticed some deaf children have sign language skills then get a CI later and they tend to keep the signing skill but not all. Those with a CI virtually from birth are not signing at all, according to a friend who works with deaf children. She is giving the job up because she cant cope anymore as she is struggling to lipread the children!!!
I do feel Solomon is right: sign language will die out. At least in England it already is as deaf children wear CIs and speak. As sad as it is there is little anyone can do as technology improves. At the end of the day language is a choice especially Sign Language and when a child has a CI from babyhood: spoken language is going to be its first language and sign language second, if at all!!
chavisory
April 26, 2015
Why do they hate sign language? Like, are they *taught* that deafness or use of sign language is inferior or something to be ashamed of? Are they systematically *taught* that being visibly disabled or different is shameful?
Society doesn’t have neutral feelings about deafness or non-speech communication, and kids who “hate” signing are not coming to those feelings in a value-neutral environment.
(I’m not Deaf, I’m autistic, and I remember HATING being different as a kid. But shame imposed by adults for what my differences were was very much involved in my feelings.)
K. Willsen
April 10, 2015
Far from dying out, I hope to see signed languages become more widely used. So many occasions call for communication without sound, whether it’s in a noisy setting, over distance, when you want to be quiet, or just because.
Kitty
April 26, 2015
Is English a dying language because of technology? NO! neither will Sign Language be a dying language. Both languages, as with most languages, is a living, breathing, developing language.
djsheala
April 27, 2015
I would love to learn our sign language. I am a DJ and I am sometimes in noisy settings, where speaking is not possible.