A big part of whether Deaf people are happy and thriving at work comes down to the people around them.
Even when you’ve successfully got through the interview stage, been offered the job, got the support you need (possibly through Access to Work) and then started work, whether you’ll thrive or not is often down to your colleagues.
Some people are naturally Deaf-aware, others learn fast. Some forget to make adjustments once in a while, while others never get it at all.
One thing has always stood out for me – new bosses.
I’ve lost count of the number of Deaf people I’ve met who were happy at work, only for this to change once a new boss came along with a very different attitude to deafness than their predecessor.
One man I know had spent years happily working and being promoted at his organisation, working well with his boss, who was very positive about Deaf people.
However, his new boss immediately had a very different perspective. The boss didn’t think Deaf people could do the job at all, and communicated rudely and patronisingly. Ironically the boss had a Deaf relative, and kept on comparing his employee to his relative. Needless to say, the Deaf man soon felt his working environment had become intolerable and later left his job. He’s now working in a very different field.
I’ve heard other stories just like this, where a new boss changes the whole working environment without bearing a Deaf employee in mind. Where once a Deaf person felt included, suddenly they are ‘out of the loop,’ as the physical or communications environment changes. It could be moving where they sit in the office, or simply not making sure a Deaf person knows something that everyone else has been told verbally about.
Perhaps, the new boss is themselves trying to seem like they’re not a pushover, and are also getting used to a new workplace, reducing the amount of time they have to focus on one employee with different needs. Or perhaps it’s worse than that, and they arrive with pre-conceived negative views that are impossible to change. Either way, the result is often not good for the Deaf employee.
It makes me think that a new boss coming along is a bit like a roll of the dice. You might get someone just like the boss you had before. You might get lucky and get someone better. You might find your life changing quite a bit if they’re worse.
This isn’t necessarily just a ‘Deaf thing.’ To some degree, changes at work affect hearing people as well. It’s just that the potential effect of these changes is much more severe.
Has your job changed when you got a new boss? Tell us your views below.
By Charlie Swinbourne, Editor
Tim
August 11, 2016
It’s difficult for me to see what the point of work is. Difficult to get a job, low pay, glass ceilings, failing access to work, difficulties communicating, colossal stress and hassle and bad colleagues and bosses. Is it even possible to afford a place of your own?
What’s the attraction?
Christina Goebel
August 11, 2016
The attraction is being who we are and doing what we were meant to do.
We all have something to give the world and it’s a shame if we don’t share our unique gifts with it. In some cases, maybe in yours Tim, starting your own business is a way to share your gifts and empower others like yourself so that they–and you–can focus on doing what you were all born to do.
For example, Wink is a public sign language presenter and audiences love him. He took his story and circumstances and built a business around it. winkasl.com
What if people could do what they love to do, what they were born to do, and get a place of their own too? People do it all the time.
People can get help funding their business sometimes through crowdfunding like Kickstarter or Indiegogo. If the business idea can get crowd funding, that’s a good sign it has a future.
It’s easy to get down sometimes. Then I remember what the football coaches tell their teams: “Hard work pays off.”
Sarah Playforth
August 11, 2016
My whole professional working life (and almost my health) was destroyed by a change of bosses. It’s too long a story for a comment but in the end I made a successful happy second career – with myself as my own boss.
Natalya D
August 11, 2016
I was lucky enough once to change bosses from “fairly awful” on many axes including deaf awareness to a new boss who was deaf aware and great.
Awful boss used to constantly suggest I gave people a little ring when the employer hadn’t given me a phoneline and interpreted my more deaf speech when I am tired as aggressive.
Amazing boss knew NGT was fairly awful so phones weren’t my area strength. When she messed up occasionally she said sorry and owned it. If my speech deteriorated notably, she would tell me in a concern for my wellbeing kind of way cos she knew it was a sign of fatigue for me.
I’ve heard it described that people often don’t leave employers, they leave bosses – implying bad bosses make people leave.
deaflinguist
August 11, 2016
Ohhh, how I relate to this. I’ve see-sawed between fantastic managers and abysmal ones in a long-term career in a niche field. My employer has an organisational culture in which adequate communication comes low down on the scale, and it really impacts on me as a deaf person. I thrive when I have personable and communicative managers, and when I don’t I expend far more energy than I should have to in finding out what’s going on.
sybil
August 11, 2016
Oh, I started typing, and realized: like Sarah’s story, it’s just too much to get into. After 22 years on a job that I mostly excelled at, I had to leave because the stresses became too great.
Having a boss who repeatedly says things like ‘I am comfortable talking to you and you do understand me’ instead of writing things down, and who repeatedly ‘forgets’ to pass along needed information is maddening. Literally, in my case- I ended up in therapy.
Christina Goebel
August 11, 2016
I just realized the importance here of educating each new boss as they come along–and that in the past I hadn’t. I thought that everything is in the personnel file and that the others admin would train them. Thinking back, that doesn’t make sense. They don’t have time to read your personnel file. The other managers have too many details to cover to get to our communicative needs. Making this work probably means that we need to teach each new boss about us when they arrive.
srhplfrth
August 11, 2016
That was what I did for my first 22 years working, but that tactic simply did not work for the next three years, the bosses concerned simply did not pay attention. You need listening empathetic bosses in the first place. I had some lovely ones but these two were incompetent and promoted way beyond their ability.