I am a Teacher of the Deaf. It’s a job I have done for over twenty years and I’ve worked in a variety of settings with learners of different ages. It’s a job that has its up and downs and inevitable frustrations, just like any other, but it’s a job I love.
Quite often, people do not understand my job. So you work with Deaf children? Yes. You work in a school for the Deaf? No. Are all the children you work with Deaf? No. Do the children wear hearing aids? Some of them. Do the children have cochlear implants? Some. So, these children are hearing then? Not exactly. But they don’t need to sign, right? Some of them do. Are the children taught separately? Sometimes.
This last one in particular seems to throw people. Even other teachers. I am currently doing my Senco training which involves attending lectures at University for ten days over the year and writing some essays, which I have completely forgotten how to do.
University isn’t like it was in the early nineties. There are fair trade coffee shops, organic cafes and not a refectory in sight. There are apps for giving student discounts, which I was thrilled to discover. Free Amazon Prime for a year? Yes, please!
Anyway, I digress. During the course of my Senco training, we talk a lot about what happens in our particular schools or settings. Sometimes this is boring, a bit like when people show you their holiday photos or tell you in detail about the dream they had last night.
Other teachers don’t necessarily understand why Deaf children in a mainstream school aren’t taught for 100% of the time in class. They talk about Inclusion but don’t necessarily understand what Inclusion is. The reasons are numerous and too complicated to go in to here so that might be one for another time.
I’m going to go back to the beginning where I said that it is a job with frustrations just like any other. One thing I have discovered over the past few years, when I have been Senco in my school as well as a ToD, is that people frequently take the word of many other professionals over the word of educators.
I have lost count of the times that my colleagues or I have advised parents that their child would benefit from X, Y or Z support only for them not to be ready to hear it yet. I have also been told outright that I am wrong about my judgments of some children. That is a parent’s prerogative.
However, it is endlessly frustrating when a medical professional who may meet a child only once tells gives their advice about something, and it is taken on board and acted upon. Sadly, I think it is as a result of the poor status of the teaching profession. Everyone seems to be an expert on schools and education.
The one that relates to my ToD role specifically is about advice from medical professionals given to parents about modes of communication, and which settings they should be sending their cochlear implanted child to.
I have read letters from doctors outlining how we as a setting should be teaching the named child, which is akin to me writing to a surgeon outlining how they should remove a body part. Sort of.
Often, parents are told that their implanted child should not be using any sign. The theory is that if children have access to sign then it will stop them from using and understanding speech. This theory is absolute nonsense. What is crucial to young minds is communication, in any form. Be that sign, speech, gesture or a mixture of all three.
What we also need to bear in mind is that the majority of deaf children have hearing parents who may have no experience of deafness so they will listen to this advice by the book, often when in a very vulnerable state and whilst still coming to terms with their child’s diagnosis.
The outcome is that access to a mode of communication is removed while their child’s brain is still learning how to understand and process sounds and speech. This is in no way supposed to be a judgement about parental choice and the right to make decisions about their child. My concern is that the advice they are listening to may be misguided.
Consequently, we sometimes have children who begin school without any communication beyond expressing their very basic needs and this includes those who have had a cochlear implant. You don’t need me to tell you how difficult this must be for any child.
Anyone with even a basic understanding of brain development will know that there is a critical period for developing any language and by removing sign it puts at risk a child’s potential to use and understand that language.
The setting I work in uses a Total Communication approach but we have at times been specifically asked by parents to not use signing with their child.
Again, this is a parent’s choice and that is their right but when their reason for making that particular choice is guided by professionals who have no understanding of education or language, that choice is at best misguided and at worst damaging for their child.
I understand that some parents take a long time to come to terms with their child’s diagnosis of deafness and that signing as a mode of communication for their child can seem scary and alien to them. For some parents the idea that their child could communicate in a way that they have no knowledge of must be difficult to accept.
A parent who wants their deaf child to use spoken language is not putting this development at risk if they also give their child access to sign language. It is called being bilingual. Obviously, there are many other factors at play, such as the level of hearing loss or technology used, but a child who has the potential to use spoken language will still have this potential if they use sign language. I am proof of that.
Jenny Willetts is a CODA, a hearing aid wearer and a Teacher of the Deaf. She likes to think she is an ok signer. She likes walking her dog and has an addiction to Diet Coke.
Jon MERRICK
October 30, 2019
Well said
Hopefully someone can share this onto NDCS AfHL etc
Parveen Chaggar
November 1, 2019
Well said Jenny. Parents should listen to us as we are professionals and we have these children in our care for more time than these medical professionals.
Jacqueline Swinbourne
October 30, 2019
I agree everything you said – sign language is the way for children to understand how to speak and speak well – continue in your good work
Everyday BSL
October 30, 2019
Hi Jenny, Thank you for writing this article. I think many parents willing to learn sign language struggle to get the appropriate resources to help them. Therefore I have written several articles that can support families wishing to learn sign language on my blog at everydaybsl.wordpress.com including using BSL with babies (recommending resources) and where to try and get funding for BSL courses from.
https://everydaybsl.wordpress.com/2019/10/10/how-to-get-funding-for-bsl-courses-if-youre-the-parent-or-carer-of-a-deaf-child/
https://everydaybsl.wordpress.com/2019/01/06/using-bsl-with-babies/
https://everydaybsl.wordpress.com/2019/04/15/everydaybsl-on-youtube/ (School and young child vocab useful to CSW’s and parents)
Hope this is useful to some readers.;o)
Agatha Peabody
October 30, 2019
Wow. Very powerful. I feel to tell a child not to sign is really a form of abuse! Sadly many hearing parents of a Deaf child do not know what is best for their child.
It is good that a Deaf child learns forms of communication early, the earlier the better. What is not good is that the Deaf child has no one to communicate with!
Maybe I am old school, but a Deaf child who uses Sign with a cochlear implant will have a better start in life.
Clara Wood
October 30, 2019
Just recently a Deaf woman from Birmingham posted a video about a ToD running a playgroup for deaf children who only used speech and only related to the hearing parents. This ToD excluded the Deaf mother from trying to join in spoken conversations with other hearing parents and was openly anti-signing. What can be done about that? It’s pure discrimination.
LW
October 30, 2019
Absolutely, this too was our experience. So far every ToD I have ever met and worked with have this attitude. No signing only speech and treatment Deaf parents terribly. They had the cheek to try and say my husband should have hearing aids not believing him when he explains they do not work. ToDs spread this awful discrimination towards Deafness and encourage other medical professionals to follow suit not the other way at all. Absolutely false. One ToDs opinion here does not speak for the rest of the profession which is a disgrace.
JLW
October 30, 2019
This is actually not all true. The senco team that worked with us had the terrible attitude of do not sign and tried to exclude my Deaf husband from fully interacting with our child. These ToD were absolutely awful to my husband. Their attitude was speak not sign, this was only from them no one else.
This article feels like a blame others for what TODs actually do and promote. It is ToDs that suggest what communication to use no one else, they always discourage sign language.
Shane Gilchrist
October 30, 2019
Excellent post, Jenny! Most parents does not realise the deaf community has no real objection to their kids learning Good Speech as long as they are taught bilingually. Surdophobia is the big bull in the china shop and it has to be addressed ASAP…
Michael Theobald
October 30, 2019
I was a deaf teacher of hearing children for 20-30 years in UK, Germany and Bahrain. I used hearing aids of all sorts.Occasionally when abroad children with a hearing problem were sent to me for me to advise their teachers. Glue ear was the common but temporary condition. Every child I taught learnt British finger spelling from me and they loved it.
I appreciate that teachers of d/Deaf children have far more on their plates than I ever did and I admire these people tremendously.
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Paul Young
October 30, 2019
My fear is hearing parents trying to, for want for a better phrase, ‘hearing-ise’ a deaf child, I must admit it happened to myself. I have came across those kids in my coaching capacity. Having years of oral approach does help but I fully utilise my hearing aids and lipreading to assist with communication. I still need an interpreter or speech-to-text support in a lot of situations. At end of the day, it is a child’s personality and confidence that shine through and people from all walk of life recognise them.
kmccready
October 31, 2019
Jenny, you clearly have a good heart and I agree with much of what you say, but I think you need to be challenged to extend your thinking because in some instances you are wrong. Firstly, parents rights do not trump children’s rights. Every child has the right to a language (not a TC melange, but that’s a separate issue). Parents rights are not untrammeled. Parents don’t have the right not to educate their children. Parents don’t have the right to withhold life saving medical care. Parents don’t have the right to send children to work any more. Parents don’t have the right to physically abuse their children. So your proposition that parents have the right to effectively withhold language from their children is flawed. I encourage you to stand up to parents on this and tell them that LEAD-K legislation makes this abundantly clear and LEAD-K should be the gold standard in any educational setting. Second, the science is crystal clear, Deaf kids whether they have a cochlear implant or not need a strong first language which must be sign language. Why? Because there is a one third chance that without sign language a Deaf CI kid will become PLD. Ironically the proof of this statistic is in Ann Geers own data although she fails to acknowledge it (https://kmccready.wordpress.com/2016/11/29/cochlear-implants-5-big-lies/). Third, you may not recognise it but I believe your thinking is still rooted in the post-Milan zeitgeist which to this day still has many manifestations, the main one being mainstreaming/inclusivity with Deaf kids being labelled “special needs” rather than being in a Deaf school where all instruction is in sign language. Before the Milan 1880 Congress, Deaf professionals were highly educated to university standard. Why? Because they had strong Sign Language as a first language which they learnt in Deaf schools. They learnt English or other written languages later. Now the trendy use of the word “bilingualism” actually means in practice that Sign Language is a 2nd language if you’re lucky. Deaf university graduates are rarer and the bar is set very, very low for Deaf kids (check out Harlan Lane’s The Mask of Benevolence on these issues). On a related issue I discovered that BATOD does not have a Code of Conduct for its teachers. Thus we get ToDs (not you per se) behaving very badly and with impunity, siding with the medicos which you rightly decry and actively working against sign language – this travesty must end.